While I have a minute here, let me tell you some thoughts about Miami.
We drove out of the cold, even though it wasn't so cold this year, and all along the Eastern Sea Coast of the USA, down to the city of Miami. We stayed there for three weeks. We rented a condo on the 23rd floor of one of the many towers that line Biscayne Bay. We were on the city side.
Out place was not on Miami Beach. We went to that side of the Bay a couple of times, but mostly that neighborhood is full of high priced hotels on the water, and lower priced, art deco renovations a few blocks from the beach. They look great, and many of the renovations are very well done, but the place is a frat party. Now if I were single and forty years younger, opps, make that fifty years younger, I might have a good time on Miami Beach from 10 PM to 5 AM. Seems like a lot of things can happen that could be fun for a brief time, and lead to heart-ache and hangovers later, and stories to tell for years after that.
But we are not in that market. We went to Miami beach twice. Once with my son and his family, including kids 2 and 4 years old, and once to swim in the ocean. We went in the morning when there was plenty of parking and the only folks around were either cleaning up from the night before, or asleep on lounges on the beach.
However, the city of Miami is the future. The city is thriving. The building that is going on is amazing. The towers that were built on the bay fifteen years ago, rose to forty stories tall. The ones built five years ago, next to or behind the first ones are sixty stories tall. The ones they are building now are going to be eighty stories tall. They are steel and glass with balconies.
I don't live there. I go to visit, be warm and have some fun, so I don't spend much time thinking about where all the money for these places comes from. Obviously, a lot of it is from South America. Money is safer in Miami Who knows what can change quickly in Peru, Colombia, Bolivia or Venezuela, as well as Brazil and Argentina. So people put their money in high rise condos in Miami. They bank in Miami, they put their mistresses, the ones you see with the augmented breasts, walking their little dogs, into those buildings.
I have been told there is lots of money coming in from China too, and probably lots is smuggled out by some of the Russian oligarchs, and sheiks from the oil countries. Not my problem.
But being in Miami is seeing the people of the future. They come from everywhere, and they live, work and play together. The first language of the city is Spanish. There is Puerto Rican Spanish , as well as Mexican, Cuban, Haitian, and dialects from all over South and Central America. There is a lot of Brazilian Portuguese. There is Moroccan and Canadian French. Almost everyone speaks English, and there is still a tiny bit of Yiddish left, but that is almost gone. Moved up to Boca. People switch languages in the middle of their sentences, using whatever word fits best.
The people range in color from whitish, to very Black, but most are some shade in-between. The money seems to be distributed almost evenly among all of the colors, but not the neighborhoods. Along the water there is money. There are Maserati, Lamborghini, Bentley, and Ferrari, zipping along those streets. Five blocks to the west, there is very little money. There are lots of twenty year old Honda Civics driving slowly through the streets.
So many different restaurants. So many kinds of foods at all kinds of prices. Our favorite serves food that is a Haitian/Asian fusion. So many different kids of music, all over the place. And while there are still many that play the music of the old culture, most of the newer stuff is a blend of three f or four cultures; Spanish,/hip-hop,/rock. Jazz/Cuban/soul/Beethoven
It's all coming together down here and the rest of the country will follow. It will make America a wonderful place to live, an whoever gets on the Supreme Court won't be able to stop it.
And soon all the buildings in Miami will be connected by beautifully colorful skywalks, as the first four or five stories will all be under water.
But as long as the kitchen is dry, things will be fine.
Psychotherapy? yes or no? Why do People do what they do? What can we do to influence that in a therapeutic way, -- Or is that a foolish idea?
Showing posts with label integration. Show all posts
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Wednesday, February 17, 2016
Monday, December 01, 2014
The Gentics of Ferguson?
The crisis in Ferguson, MO, continues, with lots of heated
debate on both sides. It is an
excellent example of how complex our lives have become. Because we humans are
such complex creatures, with uniquely evolved brains that allow us to plan,
compute, design and build, we seem to have created an environment in which many
of our ancient innate tendencies have become counter-productive
I have been reading all about Ferguson, talking about it
with to some of my poorer, angry patients – people who aren’t prejudiced, they
tell me, but who feel that Blacks are getting all the breaks—and also reading
E.O. Wilson’s new book The Meaning of Human Existence. (How’s that for taking on a big topic at an old age?)
Wilson makes that point that there are two kinds of adaptations
our genes have made over the past few million years. One kind is to increase the likeliness that the genetic
material of our individual selves, and our specific children, survive. Whatever gives us an advantage: size,
speed, tool making, problem solving, more fertile sperm, bigger hips, cuter
smiles, anything that will increase the likelihood of a next generation, and of
one after that, will remain a part of our genetic material, while those who do
not have enough of those traits will drop out over time.
The second kind of genetic adaptation, that Dr. Wilson
points out, is that we keep the
kind of genes that help our group survive. We are one of the few creatures in the history of the earth
who have learned the benefits of group cohesion. Certain, very successful colonies of ants are among the few
others. People seem to have
evolved to control the earth in the space of the larger creatures, while those
ants not only out number us by billions, they are by far the most successful at
surviving and multiplying of all the creatures.
Humans have very evolved skills at discerning what others
are thinking, at communicating our moods, at anticipating threats. We have
learned how and when it we should lead and when to follow, and when to act
altruistically so that it helps our group. We have learned that stronger groups get more resources, eat
better, and raise the chances that more of our children will survive. This is true of the ants also.
Some of that is what makes our racial problems so difficult. We live in a country that professes to
welcome all people, and offer all people equal opportunity. Yet, Black people have never really
been seen as part of that. Many
have ancestors who were brought here by force and were used as a source of
energy, and not regarded as people.
Many people live in white enclaves and have very little contact with
Black people. They don’t know them
as people. They see them as part
of a competitive group.
This was probably true of Officer Wilson. I don’t know how many Black people are
his close friends, probably not too many.
It was too easy for him to quickly classify Michael, Brown as a “demon,”
which makes him not a human, not somebody’s child, but a part of a competitive
group. I am sure that this was not
conscious. His brain acted way
faster than his mind had a chance to think. It was all primitive emotion, acting to survive. Also, he had a badge and a gun, which gave him a very different mind-set than Michael Brown, who must have felt cornered by an enemy.
If America is to finally going to do better, we have to know
one another as people. To do that
we really need to integrate our neighborhoods and our schools and our social
clubs. Since I won’t hold my
breathe for that, it would be helpful if we did have regular gatherings, social
gatherings, of all kinds of people, all of whom bring all kinds of food, play
all kinds of music, and really get to mix and meet. We have to take the
“otherness away.” We have to have
some real relationships.
This should happen in Ferguson, Boston, Selma, Topeka, L.A.
and Akron; all over. For far too long our politicians have used the formation
of opposing interest groups to split this country apart. That is easy to do, and it works. Except only in the short-run. We have already put some people on
reservations and keep them apart.
We already had a Civil War, from which we have never totally
recovered. Perhaps we could
realize that it’s time to learn that the people in this country should be
considered all a part of same group, and that we are not each other’s enemies.
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